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How to potty train your toddler by temperament!

Understanding your child's unique temperament is the key to customized potty training success.

Strong-Willed, Ambitious Children

These independent children often potty train easily but need to feel in control. STRATEGY: Offer acceptable choices like "Do you want to climb on the potty yourself or would you like help?"

Fun-Loving, Outgoing Children

These social butterflies need excitement and attention to stay engaged. STRATEGY: Make potty training a big celebration—record videos to share with family and gradually reduce rewards as they master skills.

Thoughtful, Perfectionist Children

These cautious planners fear change and need thorough preparation. STRATEGY: Provide detailed information about the entire process before starting—explain what will happen, why, how long it will take, and what rewards they'll earn.

Easy-Going, People-Pleasing Children

These laid-back children are actually the most challenging to potty train! STRATEGY: Don't wait for readiness signals (they rarely show interest)—provide constant guidance, hand-holding through the process, and leverage their desire to please. Understanding your child's unique temperament will help you customize your approach and avoid unnecessary power struggles during this important developmental milestone!

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